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[quote=Anonymous]New pp and DW here who has been on both side of the sexless equation (been the one not into sex In first relationship, my DH is now the low libido one). I fully agree with you. Your logic make perfect sense. No one should be forced to have sex but no one is forced to stay in a sexless marriage and accept celibacy.

My first partner ended up cheating on me and leaving me because I refused him the level of intimacy he wanted. He felt completely unloved and uncared for. I basically traumatized him so much that from there on he has refused to enter any relationship that was not ok with open marriage concept. Because he realized his sex drive was too high and it made him too unhappy to have sex once a month. And I really get it. We are great friends now and I really don’t feel mad at him anymore for cheating. I can understand why he searched for love somewhere else.

Now, karma... I am the one in a relationship without enough intimacy, I would love once or twice a month, my DH ? Never I guess... he assures me he loves me. I think that if he cannot love me more, if he has no interest in having sex with me, he should free me. Either an open relationship or divorce. I am NOT saying goodbye to sex and intimacy at 39 yo, life is too short[/quote]

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