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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My affair. My husband’s interest in me sexually became non existent after 20 years of marriage but otherwise we co-exist nicely. We have a DADT agreement and it works for me. This is not what I wished for in a marriage but going sex less was not an option. [/quote]

Realize a lot of the men you are having sex with do not have that agreement in their marriages and you and your spouse are opening yourselves and family to danger, your kids finding out, etc if a betrayed angry spouse finds out you are screwing her husband.  I hope you are keeping it to single people.[/quote][b]You have no idea about any of the men she is having sex with. Stop projecting your ideas on her choices.[/b] [/quote]

The insanity and bitterness by female respondents on this topic is unreal. Lunatics.[/quote]

I'm neither insane, nor bitter in the least.  I am a man who posted the bolded statement so you are wrong on three counts.  As a man who has had numerous APs over more than a decade, half of them were single women and none of the married women were found out by their spouses or anyone else.  The majority of people pull this off just fine. Oh he horror if my kids had found out?  Hell, they would be on my side.  Trust me.  They lived through my bad marriage to their mother.[/quote]

You sound like my father.  I always suspected things but my mom was in denial till she couldn't be anymore.  You can blame your wife but you are the reason why the marriage is bad and if you were a responsible adult instead of cheating you'd leave the marriage, divorce and then date.  You aren't pulling it off as well as you think.  I have zero relationship with my Dad who blames everyone but himself.  Now he's in assisted living and alone.  He lost his family.  But, at least his has his "girlfriends."  Except most of them abandoned him once the money ran dry after he spent most of it on them.  Be smug.  That is your future.[/quote]

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