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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do NOT disclose unless there was something that your wife did or is still doing to make you want to cheat again and you want to work on the marriage. Leave it in the past and never cheat again.[/quote] I so disagree. I was told. I am glad I was told. Things would not have dramatically changed and turned around. And he would not be in therapy 3 days per week and truly changing if he had just kept a secret. In fact, the weight of the secret was making him a different person. I prefer the truth. Always.[/quote] Keeping a secret does not allow for growth or change. A cheater doing that is not going to get better. The problems within themselves that allowed them to do this will stay buried. They will most likely do it again in the future. [/quote]
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