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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's very wrong of you to go to counseling pretending you have been the perfect spouse. I think it's highly likely spouse dose know and is just bidding his/her time, perhaps until the kids re 18 +. Depending on the ages of your kids they may know too, I was able to work out my dad was having an affair and I was only 11 years old. I also think odds are very high you will cheat again, unless you have done the work on yourself.[/quote] +1 A marriage will never be good while one party is hiding a secret as huge as an affair. You need to rip everything down to rebuild. You can't rebuild on a shaky foundation. It's a crap person that lies and betrays their spouse. There is only hope for them if they confess and get into therapy and start working on themselves and with you. If you can keep that kind of secret you are a pretty awful person with a corrupted soul.[/quote]
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