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But at what cost? Am i supposed to pay the other family’s share of the tutor? Their transportation to the pod? The cost of technology so they can adequately participate? Spend my own time teaching them because their parents don’t have the time? All of that would be at a cost to my family. Why would I do that? I will lobby and speak out for change and organize events to help change, but I’m not going to put my family at a disadvantage to help another family, particularly during an epidemic. But it’s the same for a well-to-do family. I purposefully wild not pod with a family whose parent(s) is/are doctors or other essential workers who have to go into work everyday or who need to take public transportation. I’m simply unwilling to take that risk for my family. And I’m not alone in that...[/quote]

I don’t know lady - I can’t tell you what to do.  But if in this time of crisis that is disproportionaly hitting minorities you circle the wagons even more and don’t help others ... that’s a problem. [/quote]

It's really not.  I prioritize the kids that I chose to birth/adopt, and others get the energy and money that I can spare.  If this situation means I have none to spare, so be it.

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Right. I’m an AA mom of one I homeschool and have a “pod” of sorts with another AA mom, also one child. We live in different neighborhoods where we are the only AA people (neither of our husbands are AA). I have an amazing classroom space I invested a lot of time and money in designing, her basement is an occupational therapist’s dream, huge backyards with pools, tons of therapeutic stuff, etc. We’ve been sharing our spaces for about a year and we were considering adding another family to the mix before coronavirus, but we’re sticking to ourselves for now. We are very like-minded, cautious, and trust each other re: social distancing. It has absolutely been suggested to both of us, with varying levels of subtlety, that we share our resources or even do childcare which is hilarious. That is so not happening for a plethora of reasons, including that the moms asking didn’t care why we were homeschooling before all this. There was no care or concern (like in both our cases, our kids were not safe at the so-called excellent public schools), just little digs how they could never. Well, we will all carry on somehow. I applaud parents being proactive. There were inequities before for a LOT of families. I don’t think race has anything to do with the proposed pod solutions and it’s very disturbing how quickly those with an agenda pivoted to that. [/quote]

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