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[quote=Anonymous]Financially you are probably much better off for having had your husband and his parents in your life for all of these years.  Look up and count your blessings. You and your husband should pool your resources for your son. If he has a problem with that then you know all you will ever need to know about your future and value to and with him. Otherwise let this go.  Families are funny, it’s quite possible that they don’t really view your son as “real” family as the blood isn’t shared and your son has a different father. (Some view adoption differently, if you and your husband had both chosen to adopt a child who was otherwise “parentless” then it would be cruel to leave that child out).

Presumably your child does have another family that includes a
Parent, grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles. He does have “blood family” to help. It is they who should be giving to your son. If they are not a part of yours son’s life then something went wrong along the way.  That isn’t the GP’s fault

Do not dwell on it. Just set your feelings aside as best as you can and move forward. [/quote]

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