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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm pretty sure there are several cheaters and other women on this thread.

Expecting others to be complicit in your adultery and lies is dysfunctional and abusive.  Thee are a million ways to leave a marriage. Probably the most cowardly is through an affair. It takes an insane amount of energy and time away from the marriage AND family to sustain, grow, and fuel. It takes concerted effort to lie and cover up all of the stolen time and energy that should be going to the family and spouse. Instead of using big boy and girl words to express their issues with their spouses, or to begin divorce proceedings, cheaters gaslight their spouses and insist everything is fine while they dismantle the foundations of the marriage.

Then they expect people to protect the children by lying about it?

Hell no.  If knowing about cheating would be devastating to the kids, maybe dont cheat. Just like you don't do drugs, or rob banks.

Kids ALWAYS find out the reason. Tell them in an age appropriate way. Get them therapy if needed. But the harm doesn't occur when the kids discover the affair... it occurs the moment the cheater decides to have an affair.  [/quote]

Omg. Yes.  +1

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