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[quote=Anonymous]This is a large part of why I stayed in my marriage. Spouse at the very least lied repeatedly. Never admitted to infidelity but I have strong reason to believe it happened. But, despite loving but not liking my spouse at the time, I went to marriage therapy & gritted my teeth & stayed in there. And, relevant for OP, I am now in a totally different place. Like *and* love my spouse. Sometimes you just have to have real commitment to making something happen. I don't know if you could get the same urgency for change tho if *your* spouse doesn't know the situation like you do. In our case, my spouse was repentant & really committed to change, & it took years. We both had the unpleasant memory of how painful it was to almost split. I'm not sure your spouse knows how damaged your marriage is if you don't come clean.[/quote] Us too....only in coming very close to the edge for real, of separating, did we pivot and recommit. But it was both of us. [/quote]
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