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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Plenty of mistresses don’t care if he leaves his wife or not. [/quote]

Agreed. They may have their own spouse they don't want to leave. [/quote]

Or maybe they are divorced and never want to marry again. In that case, they are not jealous of the wife. They pity her.[/quote]

They should go after SINGLE guys.  If they aren’t married, why are they targeting married guys?? Wtf??[/quote]When I started cheating, I was sure that I would only hook up with married women.  On dating sites, and not just AshleyMadison, I pursued the married women I eventually hooked up with.  Meanwhile, about half the women I hooked up were single and they were more likely to pursue me.  The ones I got with were pretty much on a break from serious dating and just looking for some NSF sex until the real thing came along again.  I felt so used.  LOL.  But seriously, I really was. [/quote]

I’m confused.  You only wanted to hook up with married unavailable worn for sex and then were upset that you met available women for sex that used you like you we’re going to use the married women?!?!!!

Wtf!?!! Also, dude, seriously, her spouse may be packing heat.  You want him coming after you?[/quote]Sorry if was confusing.  As a cheating, married man, I assumed that the only women who would be interested in a fling was married women.  It never occurred to me that a single woman would want anything to do with a married man, but I was wrong.  I never went after single women on the dating sites.  The ones I got with all made the first move with me.  I had a lot of NSA sex over about the last 12 years or so and about half the women were single.

I never said I was upset by anything.  In affair land, both parties are using the other for sex if you want to put it that way.  None of the women I saw wanted any kind of a permanent relationship, especially the single women, and none of the married women wanted to leave their husbands.  At least not any time soon.  They were looking for the same thing I was.  It seemed like the single women were more aggressive about it and made it clear, we can have fun now but eventually, I'm going to want an available man, if not go back to their previous BF.  Happened a lot so yes, I was just used for sex for a short time.  Not upsetting at all.[/quote]

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