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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it’s crazy to come in after 11 years and decide you want a say in decision-making. Sounds like he just wants to tussle with you over stuff like sports and college. So sorry, OP.[/quote] +1 I'd fight him, if only because joint legal is going to make it a lot harder for you to get financial aid, assuming your ex has any income at all. My ex refuses to pay for college, or even contribute to savings, but insists on continuing to have joint legal custody even without physical custody. Because he's a high earner, my children will be absolute screwed at financial aid time because their father's income will be counted, but he won't give them a cent. It's a control thing for my ex, but the implications for college are real. [/quote] My ex also refuses to pay 1/2 of college (even the state u rate) although in mediation I agreed to pay the health insurance through age 26. [/quote]
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