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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The issue is not that he wants more time to spend with his kid. He's had that chance for years and never took it. The issue is that all of a sudden, halfway through his kid's childhood, he wants the ability to make decisions. This was prompted by a diagnosis that dad doesn't agree with. Hopefully judges can see the fact that dad is opportunistic.[/quote] You should really talk with this more with your attorney. You have to strategize whether it is valuable for you to fight him for legal custody and if so how much will it cost versus how likely you are to win. Ask the attorney what you have to document to demonstrate that you have offered more time, and it has not been taken, and that you have been sole parent involved in education and medical decisions until he disagreed with some aspect of that. [/quote] The record is pretty clear. The school copies him on everything and he never attends. Not once. I have emails from doctors asking him to come in for a session and a consult and him just ignoring them/not responding. DS can vouch that his dad never did homework with him despite me asking him to. This is why I’m fighting the legal custody issue. He doesn’t know what his son needs and because of that I don’t want him involved in the decision making. [/quote]
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