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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can DH take more paternity leave? COVID leave? My guess is that he could take more time off he just feels pressure (internal or external) not to. [/quote] Another poster that doesn’t understand law firm culture. [/quote] I guess that I also don't understand this. His wife is depressed. Suicide is the second leading cause of death in women post partum, and, frankly, OP seems high risk. What is he going to do if she dies, and he has to take care of the kids? He really cannot possibly take any time off? [/quote] The solution isn’t him losing his job, it’s to get help...OP needs to get a virtual therapist she can meet with when DCs are asleep and she needs to cut out the night feedings. She also should hire someone to live-in even if it’s for 3 months. Put the crib in her room. [/quote] Why? This job is hurting his family. Why is it so important that he keeps this job to the detriment of his wife and children? The house? The cars? There are a lot of jobs out there. Maybe he could even watch the kids and OP could get a job. [/quote]
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