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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband cheated on me and died. 10/10 I'd take him cheating again over him being gone from this world. You have no idea what it's like to be a widow.[/quote]

OP here.  I'm sorry for your loss too.  If your DH's cheating had led to a divorce, and you didn't have kids to consider, I'm curious how being a widow would be worse.  For the record, it's not a competition, I know.  This was just my own personal thought exercise today.  I was surprised to realize that, for me, considering the factors I listed in my OP, I think it would've been emotionally, socially, and logistically "easier" to be a widow.  [/quote]

Being a widow is worse because someone DIED.  Got it?[/quote]

That is not always harder .[/quote]

I am not a widow nor am I aware of any cheating from my DH, but in OP’s shoes I would feel that my whole 20+ years relationship was a lie and that I never knew the man I married. I don’t know if this would be worse than a death, but it is something to think about. Also, i have kids and because of them, it would be absolutely worse if DH died[/quote]

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