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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the comparison is not okay. I am widow and devastated as are my children. I know you are hurting but don’t minimize other people’s suffering. My husband is dead, if he had only cheated on me, at least my kids would have a dad. And by the way, the sympathy and kindness lasts about 5 months. [/quote]

[b]Yes, but at least you got five months of sympathy and kindness[/b]. Divorced moms get social isolation - and so do their kids. It's cruel and traumatizing. And cheating dads are not great dads to their kids. Their kids grow up with a lot of problems without understanding healthy relationships. Their outcomes are worse than kids who lose a parent.

It's all awful, but OP has made a very valid and sad point. Her pain isn't all about you.

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Are you for real?  I guess you don't really understand what happens when people die.  I'm not PP but your post is so rude.[/quote]

You are also rude, not every alive dad is "there for their kids". [/quote]

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