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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My reflexive answer is yes, but then no sex ever again seems like a big step. But I have zero desire for DH, although we do it on occasion.  If never again with him but with someone else was an option than yes.

Married 15 years, 44 and I think I speak for most women I know [/quote]

You speak for me.   45, married for about 20 years. 
I wish I wanted it more but my drive is about zero.  I love my husband--I just don't  need sex or think about it at all except for about one day per month when I ovulate and suddenly I'm thinking about it non-stop and wondering what it would be like to have sex with random men at work and/or at the grocery store.  Rest of the month--nothing.  No man (or woman) is of any interest to me.   I wasn't always like this---things changed roughly in my early 30s. 
 
f I was single it would make life simple.  As a married woman it kind of sucks, especially for my husband but for me too.  I do have sex and it stinks to go through the motions.  Sometimes I get overwhelmed/depressed thinking about this dealing with this disconnect for the next 30-40 years.  
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Think of it like going to the in-laws or some other activity you don't enjoy. You do go through the motions because it's another responsibility of being a twosome.

When you have a partner there are compromises, and obligations.[/quote]

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