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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not enough context here. How do you know he cheated on his wife, were you his AP? If so, how could you ever trust him? I might lean towards there being a possibility for "some" type of change if he had a one night fling and felt deep remorse for it, but if it was a full-on affair, definitely not. Those types of duplicitous men never change, not themselves anyway, they just keep changing women. Even if he claims the marriage was sexless it's not good enough. He loved that woman at some point so she at least deserves to be divorced first without the emotional pain of an affair.

He learned how? Most cheaters tell you whatever they think you need to hear in order to get you in bed with them. Then as soon as the fun dries up and the relationship starts to feel like work (the same type of work he had with his wife) then he's on to the next thing. [/quote]

I agree with this. Context isn’t intended to judge the excuse for the sin; rather to further evaluate for flags that are red (or green). In my opinion, someone has to be a pretty strong candidate out the gate to even consider this, without compromise in values.[/quote]

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