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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love this so much. My in-laws are pretty nice and never announce the kitchen is closed, but they never have enough food at meals. There's often no carb and very limited quantities. One year we were allotted [b]4 stems of asparagus, a small portion of fish, and an artichoke each[/b]. I was breastfeeding twins and literally ate almost an entire turkey alone the week before when visiting my family... [/quote]
Even if that’s how they normally eat, are they unfamiliar with the concept of being hospitable to guests? Have they never been guests in anyone else’s home? Never watched a single Food Network show where food is prepared for entertaining? I was raised so differently that I cannot understand this. I leave snacks in my guest room when my parents visit, just in case they’re hungry sometime late at night and don’t want to bother me. What kind of monster doesn’t check in with a breastfeeding mother (to twins no less!) to make sure she has everything she needs? I’m experiencing second hand distress over this.[/quote]

This is not as uncommon as you’d think. I was breastfeeding and my parents served one ready-to-serve can of soup for lunch, split between 4 people! WTF? They also seemed annoyed when I sent DH to Panera for sandwiches because there was “plenty of food.”[/quote]

+2  Old people lose their appetite and don't understand how much younger people need to eat.  My grandparents ate very little in their 80s.  My parents do this a bit too.  They never did it when we were younger, and they don't do it for big dinners/official hosting, but if we're just ordering take out together or something, we do NOT leave the ordering to them.  They significantly underestimate how much my DH and adult bro need to eat.  My WASP FIL does not have that problem.  He has a healthy appetite.  Maybe it just depends on their own appetite and they assume that whatever is filling to them will be filling to others too.  My FIL is always giving us huge portions.  To the point that we will request a "FIL size piece" of cake, etc. if we want a big piece.  [/quote]

On the contrary, a mil serving is basically crumbs. [/quote]

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