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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with previous posters- yes women seem to be (unfairly) expected to maintain ties with ILs and pick up the slack for their DHs- some women do it, others don’t. I would mention this goes both ways- for example if ILs expect this, then they shouldn’t favor their DDs/DDs families. My ILs pretty much plan around their daughters (2) and then tell DH/us the plan when it is already decided. MIL and SILs (her daughters) decide everything without consulting us or ever asking what does and doesn’t work for us. I find my ILs want it both ways- they want me to communicate with them as a daughter would (to cover for their [b]lazy son[/b]) yet don’t give me the same courtesy as a they might a daughter (and I am talking basic plans making logistics, nothing intimate)[/quote] Why did you marry a lazy man. That’s on you not MIL.[/quote]
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