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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The invite everyone poster is off her rocker. 
We’re not “open to growth”? Lady, you must have a rough time in life. 
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There is no invite everyone poster .

There are people saying leaving 1 person from s group out on purpose is rude.

There are people saying purposeful social isolation is wrong.[/quote]

Just because they don't include someone doesn't make it purpose social isolation.  If they proactively try to get someone excluded when someone else wants to include them, then that's purposeful social isolation.  I have a teen who isn't always included.  One of my best friend's DD is in the same grade as my DD and they are in classes together.  Her DD is socially "popular" but doesn't include my DD despite knowing her for years.  That doesn't upset me.  They've had plenty of opportunities to be around each other and they don't really bond.  I know if I ask my friend to include my DD she would, but as we can't force her DD to actually click with my DD, it would just be awkward for all invoked.  I didnt get invited to things in high school and managed to turn out just fine.  I wasn't like the other kids.  I didn't know how to make small talk and just wasn't good at interacting in social settings.  Why is that someone else's responsibility?  We all want to protect our kids and give them the best life, but we shouldn't expect others to include someone they don't really get along with.  If your child feels loved within your family, you've given them a great foundation to deal with not being included.  [/quote]

We are not talking about that situation. If you daughter and she played BB together and she invited the whole team except your daughter that would be rude.

Most people don’t cross pollinate their social groups.[/quote]

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