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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can’t believe these responses. My DHs dad married his affair partner and they lived happily ever after for decades. I can’t imagine if she had gotten this treatment eternally, especially when it takes two to tango. My MIL said she should never should have married him, and you know marriage is complex. The fact is your nieces and nephews are going to likely live with her. While people weren’t close, they were all civil and welcoming. DH and his siblings all still communicate with her 10 years after their dad died and she still acts like grandma to our kids. [/quote]

This happened to my aunt.  She got divorced and her ex married and has so far stayed married to AP.  That was 20 years ago.

It's up to you, you don't have to jump right in with meeting her straight away but at some point she may become part of your family.  She may be a better fit for your brother.  Only time will tell.

If you don't want to meet her now don't be too judgemental in how you approach it, leave the door open, make it about YOU not being ready, don't say anything about the OW.  Time can be a great healer and when you are ready you don't want to have burnt all the bridges.

At the end of the day you should be more upset with your brother than this OW.[/quote]

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