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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will freely admit that I do not usually intervene when my kid commits a routine playground faux-pas like climbing the slide. You know why? I am tired and it is not a huge deal at the end of the day. With my 2yo, I intervene because it is usually a safety issue. With a 5yo, though? No. They can figure it out themselves.

I completely realize this is selfish and that most of you probably find it extremely annoying. I find the people who are constantly intervening in the social dynamics of elementary-school-aged kids annoying as well. [/quote]

I was just thinking as I read the OP, "I let my 4 year old climb the slide......"    I figure he and the other kids can work it out.  Either they will take turns, or they will all decide to climb up instead of slide down, or vice versa, or someone will get kicked and i'll say "yup, sometimes that happens when you climb the slide when it's crowded... people coming down have first dibs".  I actually really dislike when other parents correct children climbing the slide (who aren't their own).  "Ok guys... slides aren't for climbing!  Little Larlo (their own child, always) is waiting patiently to slide down!"   Like ok... let them wait patiently.  What's wrong with this? [/quote]

OP again and I let my kid climb up the slide when there aren't any other kids trying to use it.  But if I see a kid at the top of the slide ready to go down, and my kid starts climbing up it, I'm going to intervene.  Why is my kid so special that he gets to do whatever the heck he wants, regardless of the other kids that are waiting?  [/quote]

Neither kid is more important than the other. Just let them work it out. They are at school all day without you- they know how to work it out![/quote]

Pretty sure half of these parents would love to shadow their kids all day to intervene on all of their social interactions. [/quote]

Yes!  I love the glorious helicopter parenting.  [/quote]

So sad that the hand-off parents don't understand that there is a common-sense, happy medium between helicopter parenting and getting off your duff to deal with your kid when it is necessary.  [/quote]

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