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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let me ask the men this. 
Do you treat your wife now the same or better than you did when she was your girlfriend?

My DH and I used to travel all of the time. He bought me jewelry, we went out to fancy restaurants.

Now 3 kids later, we still go out but maybe 1x per month. Not 4-5 times per week like before. 
He doesn't spend hours looking at necklaces or researching resorts in Europe like he used to. 
Our relationship is still great. 
I don't bitch and moan about not going to Fuji this winter because things change over time. That money is used for school, lessons, college etc. And I am fine with that becuase we are not just a "WE" we are a family now. 
Sometimes that means less travel, less eating out, less sex.

I wish more men would be like my DH and not feel entitled to their wife's body whenever and wherever. Because i would bet good money YOU are not the same man she married and was wooed by.[/quote]
If my wife came to me and said that she really needs us to go out 4-5 times per week, that this is VERY important to her, that she feels unloved going out only 1x per month, you sure as heck better believe we would find a way to prioritize going out 4-5 times per week. I wish more woman would stop using words like "entitled to my body" in reference to the man who pledged monogamy to her.[/quote]

I don’t know any married men who would prioritize going out 4-5 times per week. They just complain that it’s too much money, they’re too tired from work, they just want to sit and watch tv, and they’d put zero effort into finding things to do.

I get it, but when you stop acting like a fun boyfriend, you can’t really expect your wife to continue acting like the fun girlfriend. [/quote]

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