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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let me ask the men this. 
Do you treat your wife now the same or better than you did when she was your girlfriend?

My DH and I used to travel all of the time. He bought me jewelry, we went out to fancy restaurants.

Now 3 kids later, we still go out but maybe 1x per month. Not 4-5 times per week like before. 
He doesn't spend hours looking at necklaces or researching resorts in Europe like he used to. 
Our relationship is still great. 
I don't bitch and moan about not going to Fuji this winter because things change over time. That money is used for school, lessons, college etc. And I am fine with that becuase we are not just a "WE" we are a family now. 
Sometimes that means less travel, less eating out, less sex.

I wish more men would be like my DH and not feel entitled to their wife's body whenever and wherever. Because i would bet good money YOU are not the same man she married and was wooed by.[/quote]
If my wife came to me and said that she really needs us to go out 4-5 times per week, that this is VERY important to her, that she feels unloved going out only 1x per month, you sure as heck better believe we would find a way to prioritize going out 4-5 times per week. I wish more woman would stop using words like "entitled to my body" in reference to the man who pledged monogamy to her.[/quote]

Sure you would. For a week. Then you would find it a waste of your time if you didn't enjoy going out and stop doing it. [/quote]

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