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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What the monogamy for life side isn't seeing here is that people can change. While I THOUGHT my husband was good for monogamy for life, it turns out at 42 he started rethinking ... and he brought it up to me to discuss.

This is NOT a breach of contract. It is negotiations. If both parties agree, you change and grow. A marriage can be whatever you want it to be!!![/quote]

And if both don't?  As is the case here?

Then the person who wants to change the agreement bears the responsibility.

Simple.[/quote]

Nothing about marriage is simple.  If the person who wants the change isn't happy and the other person refuses to change, then they are headed for divorce. OP is the only who can decide whether he'd rather be divorced than grant his consent to his wife having sex with other people.  Some people think a shared life, child raising, shared finances, and history is worth enough that monogamy can be sacrificed to maintain it.  [/quote]

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