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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again

Wow this blew up, thanks to those of you who offered support and solid advice. I had to revisit the conversation with my wife since it’s definitely not a topic to be left unresolved. She tried to ask about opening up the marriage to women only (she’s “bi” I guess) but again, I have no interest in sharing with other men OR women. Why is it so hard to understand? Anyway, I made my position clear and she said she would drop it. Of course now I feel like an asshole when I didn’t even do anything wrong and on top of that I will forever be wondering if she’s unhappy or just eventually cheats on me.

I wouldn’t wish this bullshit on my worst enemy. My once secure, happy marriage feels like it’s in jeopardy now. Hopefully I can learn to let it go and she really does drop it for good.[/quote]

OP,  you didn't do anything wrong.  Neither did your wife.  She found out that she has sexual desires that aren't being met and she asked you for a different arrangement to work that out. You said "No." That's your right.  She'll decide whether to live with it or not. That's her right.  When there is some basic sexual incompatibility in the marriage, then somebody has to make a sacrifice.

Best of luck to both of you.[/quote]

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