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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In 10 years you may have grandchildren. Imagine being kept from them and missing out on all the joys of family holidays and other occasions. You wouldn't be fully included in your children's lives, if at all. Imagine losing all the friends and neighbors you and your wife share in common. All this for a roll in the hay? Love isn't always easy but it endures. Lust does not.
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Just a random poster here. I don't like my inlaws. I don't do holidays with them. You can be fully in children's lives...just not fully in your ex spouses lives. My spouse and and I don't have common friends. Who gives a crap about neighbors. People always assume marriages are the same and intertwined. They are not. People also assume people really care about the things you mention. I don't. I am a woman. I only care about the kids in a divorce. I would not care about anyone else. Not anyone. Not friends, not neighbors...and I could see my kids on my own time without my spouse (which I would gladly welcome). I am so tired of people making divorce out to be a big huge disaster. It is how you approach it. [/quote]

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