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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I’ve reflected a lot. Cut contact with this other woman and am going to honestly work on my relationship with my wife. Becoming sober and headed back to therapy, too.[/quote]

How did she react to you ending it with her?

How do you know she won’t try to either restart the affair or blow up your life?[/quote]

She accepted it.

I don’t know, but can only make the right decisions going forward.[/quote]

Yea so did my ex-DH’s AP. Until she didn’t. She approached me with all the details of their affair and our marriage was over. He didn’t go back to her like she hoped, but our kids were and are devastated by the divorce. The worst part of it all. You took a HUGE risk, OP.[/quote]

Or the other spouse finds out. One of the neighbors alerted a spouse his wife was having a man over during the day....lol...so you never know. Especially when there are cameras/video everywhere.

People who think they'll never be caught don't seem to realize that they can't control what the affair partner may do. They think being w a married AP is safer bc the AP also has a lot to lose...Until the affair becomes more important to the AP than the marriage. [/quote][/quote]

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