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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am I the only one who thinks it's a stretch to automatically assume this little girl must be being raped by her brother because of what OP described?  Sounds like he is overly touchy/feely, but it's a HUGE LEAP from that to actually putting his penis in her vagina against her will at night. Boys that age are hormonal- YES. [b] But he probably has some freaking self control[/b] when it comes to RAPING HIS 10 YEAR OLD SISTER.  Like how you get mad at your little brother so you push him down sometimes, that doesn't mean you are beating him unconscious with a baseball bat in your shared room at night because that's such a HUGE LEAP from sometimes pushing him when you're mad.  Being hormonal and clearly too touchy with her at the pool is a far cry from actually physically raping her.  Everyone on this thread needs to take a deep breath. [/quote]

Where would that self-control come from, exactly?  He's behaving incredibly inappropriately in public already, and basically getting the reaction from his parents that if she can't fight him off then he gets to do what he wants.  And their parents have them sharing a room.  This is how he acts during the day with non-family members watching.  It's crazy to act like it's a HUGE LEAP to think that he's not pushing it further away from any supervision whatsoever.

I agree with the PP above you that it might not have progressed to penetration yet, but what we see here is that he's been given the all clear to do what he wants to her, and she's had it reinforced that no one will help her when she says no, so I feel pretty confident saying if OP does not intervene this will lead to rape.  [/quote]

The self control would come from the incredible societal taboo of rape, not to mention incestual rape.  Like how you might hate your friend and want to kill him- and some kids might progress to actually punching their friend in a moment of passion, although many wouldn't- but most kids aren't going to ACTUALLY kill their friend because it's so incredibly not okay in society to do that.  I kind of see this the same way.  He is being inappropriate- yes.  he should stop- yes.  Is he forcing rape and incest on his sister?  Chances are, no.  So OP should totally step in and speak up to the parents but I thikn everyone on this thread who is panicking about the definite incest/rape going on in that bedroom can calm down. [/quote]

Taboos are not keeping kids safe. 
Of kids who are sexually assaulted, 36% are assaulted by their fathers (20%) or other relatives (16%).

She needs to call.  If there is nothing wrong and the parents just need to actually parent their kids, then they will get told that.  Let's all hope that is the resolution. If the parents aren't uncomfortable with their son holding down or grabbing or picking up their child and rubbing her body like that, then op talking to them will do ZERO. And this girl needs help.  She needs help just from what OP has seen, and probably from more that OP hasn't seen.  OP is not equipped to handle this.  Let professionals do their job. [/quote]

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