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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am I the only one who thinks it's a stretch to automatically assume this little girl must be being raped by her brother because of what OP described?  Sounds like he is overly touchy/feely, but it's a HUGE LEAP from that to actually putting his penis in her vagina against her will at night. Boys that age are hormonal- YES. [b] But he probably has some freaking self control[/b] when it comes to RAPING HIS 10 YEAR OLD SISTER.  Like how you get mad at your little brother so you push him down sometimes, that doesn't mean you are beating him unconscious with a baseball bat in your shared room at night because that's such a HUGE LEAP from sometimes pushing him when you're mad.  Being hormonal and clearly too touchy with her at the pool is a far cry from actually physically raping her.  Everyone on this thread needs to take a deep breath. [/quote]

Where would that self-control come from, exactly?  He's behaving incredibly inappropriately in public already, and basically getting the reaction from his parents that if she can't fight him off then he gets to do what he wants.  And their parents have them sharing a room.  This is how he acts during the day with non-family members watching.  It's crazy to act like it's a HUGE LEAP to think that he's not pushing it further away from any supervision whatsoever.

I agree with the PP above you that it might not have progressed to penetration yet, but what we see here is that he's been given the all clear to do what he wants to her, and she's had it reinforced that no one will help her when she says no, so I feel pretty confident saying if OP does not intervene this will lead to rape.  [/quote]

Look, most 13 year old boys are raging full of hormones and probably most of them have - or have tried to- "wrestle" similarly aged girls or younger girls for some sort of gratification.  But most 13 year old boys will never go on to rape those girls.   Truly.  [b]Do you think all 13 year old boys are rapists[/b]?[/quote]

Speaking of HUGE LEAPS.   :roll:

Listen if you're not asking in good faith, go off.  But you asked why you were the only one who thought it was crazy to go from the presented facts to sexual assault.  And I explained why it's not crazy.  If you've got some extra agenda about how boys should be allowed to lay on top of their sisters and hold them down and kiss them in public (but apparently also be given the benefit of the doubt about internalizing taboos about incest), have that thread without me.[/quote]

Of course they shouldn't be allowed to.  I think he sounds like he needs help with boundaries for sure.  But literally you guys have jumped from "he picks her up and hugs her at the pool when she says no" (remember the forcible kissing was years ago so probably more kid-like I would assume) to "he is forcing his penis inside her against her will".  THAT IS A HUGE LEAP. And if you can't see why, then I'm sorry.  All 13 year olds are chock full of hormones and 99.9% of them don't rape their pre pubescent sisters. [/quote]

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