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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ I know you're going to suggest that it's her but I promise you it's not. She's a good looking girl (very pretty but not intimidatingly beautiful). Great education, good job, lots of friends, active social life.

It's the men her age who suck![/quote]Uh, the issue isn't whether she has a great education, good job, lots of friends, and active social life.  The issue is that [i]she[/i] is chasing men who are not available and probably doing it for reasons that she is in denial about.  I say that because I've been there and done that.  She needs to do therapy about why she has a problem with commitment.  Yes, I'm serious.  It's her choices that are the problem.[/quote]

+ 1. I’m single and OPs age, don’t hook up, and have been in two LTRs. Waited until it was serious enough in both instances. Dated casually without hooking up all the time, and some of those men I never slept with still reach out years later. Being chaste is never something a man will judge you for.

My younger cousin is 10yrs you get and like OPs SIL. She is on Tinder and has been in two serious relationships from the app. You attract what you have he capacity to nurture on the inside, everything else eventually falls away.[/quote]

I was a virgin until I was 22 and I know I drove my college BF's crazy by never putting out but they never disrespected me. The few guys I did have sex with prior to my DH had to wait a pretty long time before I was willing to have sex. Funny thing is I had sex with my DH on our first date - I asked him out - but we had been good friends for a few years. So you never know![/quote]

I dated you in college. What a waste of time looking back. You gave it up for other guys, yet I was the "respectful" one. I cringe at the memory.[/quote]

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