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[quote=Anonymous]A lot of these discussions are a little too insistent on associating lack of sexual interest with something blameworthy: He must not be good in bed. She's left to do too many chores. He's not paying enough attention. It creates a sense that if a couple's sex life declines that someone must be doing something wrong. That, in turn, leads to a sense of injustice when a husband feels like he's doing things right and the sex life is still sub-par. The brutal fact is that sometimes bad people have good sex and good people have bad sex. A couple's sex life isn't a morality play where the virtue is rewarded.

If that's the context, a couple is going to have a tough time working through the issue where the sex isn't very good even though no one has done anything particularly wrong. A hormonal shift plus lack of novelty is sufficient to kill a libido. She's not being a withholding bitch. He's not an asshole. Bodies sometimes just stop producing the chemicals that make you feel desire. [/quote]

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