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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All you DCUMers saying to marry the guy are blinded by his supposed "millions". Reminds me of 50 Shades of Grey. If he was some bus driver making $30K a year, we all know what the answer to OP's question would be. The hypocrisy is astounding. Personally, I don't think highly of people who end up in OP's situation..men or women...but it does sound like OP is one of those single moms. [/quote]

Nope, just being practical.  It is an absolute fact that money can bring more stability to a marriage, and take out a whole list of stressors.  Or course it is easier to marry a rich man who loves you vs. a poor one.  If OP is a pregnant single mom, the stability that an established man who loves her would bring to her life would be a good thing.

On a side note, I'd be curious to know the general source of this guy's money.  Is he self-made?  Is he a layabout over grown party boy with a trust fund? Is he feeding at the trough of his parents' wealth, in which case they could cut off support at any time?  Is he a responsible guy with a trust fund?

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He is financially conservative and had a modest trust that he invested well. Well-educated, super smart, very hard worker. He’s a business executive.[/quote]

I was (maybe still am) in the "marry him" camp, but your last couple of posts describing him as married to work and not into commitment are kind of an issue.

Have you talked to him about how he's going to be an involved father when he's working and traveling for work all the time? Does he see the discord between desperately wanting you to have the baby and also maintaining his current work/life balance.

That would bother me - a lot.[/quote]

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