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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d be annoyed if someone tried to turn my standing play date with a good friend into a play group.[/quote]

Technically it was a playgroup through a moms club, but they were the only members. When I first met the friend I was very clear that I didn’t want to disturb their duo![/quote]

Aaaaand then you went and tried to turn their duo into a trio on Mondays.  :oops:  So...maybe not as "clear" as you meant to be...?[/quote]

Oh, no, I mean I asked if it is was ok and threaded carefully. I am fully aware that three is a crowd! I hasn’t worked out for us to get together altogether in several months, or maybe they were getting together and I wasn’t aware (very likely) and when I tried to get us together for real she shut that down.[/quote]

Wait, sorry... This is a totally different version of the story. You don't actually have a standing date w/ ML? You haven't met in "months"? (But you've only known her 6 months?) Then you found out she met up w/ this other person on the same day you wanted to meet and invited yourself along even though ML didn't bring it up as a possibility? Yeah, that's super weird, OP. (And explains the ML's response, which basically said she didn't want to hang out w/ you on your "standing date" day either.)

You seem like a nice person. Your texts were super welcoming and, as described, not weird to me. But I think you may be very socially awkward/not very good at reading social cues. Back off both people entirely. In a month or so, invite ML to a playdate on a different day of the week and go from there...[/quote]

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