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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry OP, but if you stay in this marriage then you are never going to feel any life joy ever again. :(

Your husband just cannot give up this other woman.
His feelings for her are still very strong.
That much is obvious.

I could not stay married to someone who still carried a torch for a previous love - it would just hurt too much.

Initiate a divorce now so you can take back all of your pride & self-respect once more.

I wish you only the very best.[/quote]

When I found out,  I told him I was leaving and I guess that made him realize how much he loved me so he dropped to his knees and told me he'd never speak to her again.  Obviously he couldn't keep that promise since he felt the need to wish her happy birthday two consecutive years but other than that,  he's anyone l acting like she doesn't exist, which is why I say why not just block her?  What's stopping him?  [/quote]

Were you dropped on your head as a child?  What's stopping him is that he doesn't really love you, he loves her and, perhaps more importantly, he loves the way that thinking about her makes him feel.  He's not ready to blow up his life, but I suspect he would drop you like a hot potato if she were available and willing.  You aren't winning anything except a marriage to a guy who has cheated on you twice and can't keep his promises.  He's probably figured out that he doesn't have to, because you aren't ready to give up your lifestyle and you're invested in the appearance of a great marriage. 
 Either way, if you are dumb enough to believe him when he says that he loves you and won't speak to her again, you guys deserve each other.  [/quote]

Definitely written by the OP's DH or her DH's OW! [/quote]

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