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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]...There is something there with your frantic socializing and shopping for deals - it could be avoiding dealing with something, repeating what you saw from childhood, I don’t know.  As for having memories for the kids of the gingerbread party, being brutally honest, your under 2 won’t remember and my kids rarely ever want to look back at all the pictures.  You are likely doing it for you and but saying it’s for them, so you can avoid dealing with everything else.  But you have to keep your eyes on the prize and realize if you and your DH divorce over the clutter or constantly argue about it, no gingerbread party or hosting something every two weeks will make up for that.[/quote]

OP:  You’re very right that the littlest one is not going to remember, so I am doing it more for me.   I want to nurture a close relationship between the kids, the cousins and grandparents.  Is it considered frantic socializing in DC to see family and friends once a week on Sat and Sun (any given individual is visited only once a month or so, except one cousin for play dates)?  DH is an introvert and would always prefer to see no one but us (immediate family = kids and me).  In States south of DC, you just spend your time with family. Honest question—I’m not being obnoxious. [/quote]

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