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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you really don’t get it. [/quote] OP here: I get that I’m failing at this (tidy house as a WOHN job), so I am posting and listening. Thanks to the great people who posted their perspectives and shared ideas. I’m impressed that the PPs with similar experiences in both sides took time to post. I’m copying out all the information in a separate guide for myself. The negative comments aren’t bad; they are dose of reality. Then again, you might be right: maybe verbal abuse by strangers is the right way to get people to listen. I also bet that if we yell really loudly at teens about abstainance, I’m sure it will work great. Sorry about the snark, but I really can’t inagine why PPs guess that’s better than education about the topic. If PPs keep tsk-tsking and berating me *why won’t I think of the children* then I am sure it will work great and make the conversation that much better. I’m prickling at the “her poor kids” comments—because even if the PPs feel that way, it’s not helpful to getting things done if there is nothing else offered. If there’s more than that and anyone has time to clarify, then I’m all ears. I just want to get things done. [/quote]
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