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[quote=Anonymous]Former dancer pp again. I guess I should be more specific about some of the "crazy" behaviors that I did not enjoy from female patrons. These are all things I either had done to me or witnessed happening to coworkers. I'm talking about things like female patrons grabbing dancers inappropriately, dumping drinks on them, trying to fight them, trying to shove the dancer off the stage and hop on stage to dance, verbally insulting the dancers either to their faces or loudly while near the stage, trying to take money back from a dancer that their dh had tipped to the dancer, and generally getting wasted and making an a** of oneself. Oh also there were the ones that were trying very hard to spice things up with DH and you would take them back for a lap dance and find they were wearing a skirt with no panties. Fun times. I don't believe this is a difference of opinion or whatever, all of this was really not enjoyable and contributes to dancers immediately having their guard up when women come in.

Addressing the original point of the thread, my best advice for the ladies and how I've always dealt with this in my relationships is this: if your partner wants to go to the strip club a few times a year for a bachelor party, guys night, etc, I would be fine with it. If your partner starts to become a regular and goes by themselves on weeknights, this I would not be ok with. If you go together, agree on your boundaries beforehand and don't be a jerk to the dancers.

Oh also, someone earlier asked for an AMA. I'm sure the former dancers posting here would be ok answering a few burning questions, but ask a stripper AMA has already been done on reddit a million times! I'm not sure how much new info I really have to contribute. [/quote]

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