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Reply to "Please help- my DH lost his job again and I’m thinking of leaving him"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I’ve been in your shoes - the job loss, the undiagnosed ADHD, the drinking. Except I work, so I was the breadwinner and was paying for childcare because exDH couldn’t be trusted. There is not much you can do to save this marriage. Honestly, I wasted years of my life and huge amounts of money waiting for therapy to fix things (couples therapy for us, individual for him), waiting for him to get it together. I do think you need to take control of your life and do what’s best for you and the kids. You can give him support to try to help himself if he’s willing, but you need to spend most of your time and energy on you and the kids. [/quote]
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