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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]he’s still working. And if they are like me, their net worth is tied up with their home and retirement accounts- not accessible Monty in the short term. Frankly I don’t believe she should be forced to sell her home and while he is still working she gets alimony. [/quote]
It sounds like she really can't afford her home: she has no income! They should sell the house and split the assets, he could keep it (and buy her out), or she can get a mortgage to buy him out. Regardless, she should be forced to work: given that HE is forced to work... to pay her alimony.[/quote]

See, but heres the thing. You think its fair that they divide the assets equally, but they can't divide his decades of work, resume, reputation, and career security. She is left with zero work history, resume, and career security, so by dividing the estate and not factoring in earning potential, you aren't actually dividing the estate equally.  If he looks at his half of the nut and determined it enough to retire on, I'm guessing alimony would be moot. But if he doesn't see his half as enough, its likely that her half isnt enough for her either...and she isn't capable of earning enough to supplement because of her losing investment in the ex husband.

One thing I like about America is that forced labor isn't really a thing. [/quote]

You are missing a major point which is that she chose to sacrifice those things.[/quote]

Yes! And she did so knowing the very publicly available laws- which assured her alimony.

He presumably did as well.

Marriage is a contract. Those are some of its terms risks and rewards. They entered into marriage willingly. Who is anyone then to say taking what they are legally entitled to is showing “no pride”? It’s the fulfillment of the terms of a voided contract.[/quote]

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