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[quote=Anonymous]When you marry someone divorced with children, you need to recognize that at any second, those kids could be yours full-time. Life is unpredictable. There are car accidents, illnesses, etc. How this possibility did not occur to you prior to marrying your husband is truly astounding to me. It seems pretty basic. I mean, truly, how can that possibility not cross your mind? And, of course, a decent person would never marry someone if they felt they wouldn't want to take their kids on full-time if circumstances changed. If you did think about it, and you married him anyway just hoping it wouldn't happen, well, you're an ass and an idiot. Either way, you don't have standing to tell your husband you don't want this. This is his kid. What kind of person would you be to tell him his child cannot live with him? Maybe this is your penance for not making decisions like a grown-up. [/quote]
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