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[quote=Anonymous][quote]You sound like a schmuck whose wife got disgusted because he was a doormat. And you still are.[/quote]

I am sure your exDH hates you.  And with good reason.  Your anger is so clear in every response.  Did she cheat on you?  Good for her.  I am sure whomever she was with was better than you at everything that mattered.

[quote]But I have no obligation to adjust my schedule to suit her whims, and she [b]knows better[/b] than to ask me. 
But, if she says "hey can you drop everything you want to do so I can go date some guy I met on Tinder" [b]his answer should be eff off[/b], do that on your own non-custodial day.
Attempts to [b]guilt-trip me into doing what you want [/b]with "you don't care about your kids" nonsense [b]will meet with the contempt they deserve[/b]. 
I don't care at all what she does with her time, on her non-custodial days. But [b]if she thinks I'm going to adjust my schedule[/b] for something that is not a work or child-related emergency, she is [b]utterly mistaken[/b].
Nope. It sends a [b]strong message[/b] that she should confine her dating life to days when she does not have custody.[/quote]

You are either not smart enough (very likely) or too angry (also very likely) to read what you have posted and see the pettiness in it.  Worse, you believe this pettiness is perceived as strength when instead people see it for what it really is, weakness born of the loss you felt when she left you.   You suggest that you would meet her questions with "contempt they deserve."  I am sure your Ex has met contempt, and that she feels it for herself for every being with you.

She "knows better" than to ask you?  Be honest.  Were you physically abusive when you were married and she asked you something she should have known better than to ask?  Did you need to be abusive to show her you were not a "doormat"?  You sad, weak little boy.
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