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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love my DH, and he still turns me on.  However, I have health issues and menopause has made sex very painful....including lots of bleeding.  I have seen various doctors and am trying everything I can, but sadly, sex hurts and that is no fun. [b] I do try to satisfy my husband in other ways, but feel very guilty.[/b]  However, sex isn’t everything in a marriage and if it caused him to cheat, I would divorce him.  We are getting older and things change.  The changes have been absolutely no picnic for me either.  This thread makes me feel horrible as a wife.[/quote]
1. Expand your definition of "sex": there are 1000+ mutually pleasurable acts do not involve female penetration. Find ways to make it fun for you!
2. Props for satisfying your husband in other ways... keep that up on a weekly+ basis and you have nothing to feel guilty about, and no fear of him cheating.
3. While your health issues are unfortunate, keep in mind that (if he's healthy) your husband's sex drive is strong as ever so you must not fall into the trap of believing that you are "done with sex" because at that point you should just divorce him ASAP, rather than wait for the inevitable discovery of him going elsewhere.[/quote]

You are always spouting this crap and you are wrong. Truly one of the most vile posters on the DCUM.

Men's sex lives DO often take a dive. They get older too. They gain weight, they lose their jobs, they stop getting erections (even with drugs), they are stressed and need sleep.

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