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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Second wife here.  If you were my DH's X and you had done this to us ([i]my DH's crashed our wedding drunk to "pick up the kids" and got into a fight with her former MIL so I get terrible Xs[/i]), it would not have put us on the right footing for the future.   That does not equal abuse. [b] It just means the kids might enjoy spending time with us less. [/b] Does that mean the weekend we have them, we're going to a stamp and coin show with grandpa for endless hours; why yes it does.  Does it mean going to Ikea on a saturday for hours; why yes it does.  Does it mean selecting a very rural vacation house near a national park with no cell service so you can't text/play games/internet mindlessly + what it doesn't have cable tv or internet; why yes it does.  Boredom doesn't equal abuse, but let me tell you that kids these days aren't fans of boredom.  For some reason, his kids didn't want to come on our week vacation to Montana this year...[/quote]

WOW! You are a true piece of garbage. [/quote]

I had to after everything the X did.  She blacked my heart.  The worst was not watching the kids/switching/whatever when our first was in the NICU for 5 weeks; that was the breaking point.  I'm just warning the OP if she wants to play the game, maybe it won't end how she expected as the new wife might play along.  [/quote]

Play along to the detriment of innocent children, huh? Wow...[/quote]

NP here, but honestly do you really think there isn't an equal and opposite reaction to the OP's original post?  OP calls a honeymoon a sex vacation and wants support for not switching with her Ex.  PP comes on says as a second wife she'd react terribly to the OP's hostility towards her honeymoon.  This is just Newton's third law - For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.

Both are terrible, but terrible in gets terrible out.

The answer - DON'T BE TERRIBLE![/quote]

OP IS terrible - no one here is defending her. But using children to get back at her bad behavior? Really? But then again, if the DH picked wife number 1, it's not surprising he'd pick another piece of garbage for wife number 2. [/quote]

I’m ok being garbage #2.  My life is good - roof over my head, kids healthy, good partner, great friends/family, don’t have to work anymore thanks to family money, etc.  I admit I can be a B, but I’m very upfront with my personality.  Not everyone has to like me bc that’d be exhausting.[/quote]

How long until your DH stops seeing the first set of kids and you both blame it on parental alienation by the XW?[/quote]

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