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[quote=Anonymous]the best thing for the kids is to have as little tension as possible in their lives surrounding the changes that they face and that they had no choice about. No bad mouthing, no fighting, etc. I would make an effort to co-parent as smoothly as possible, because it will benefit you in the end and definitely benefit the kids. As long as the requests are reasonable, then why not? It will certainly go a long way toward building good will--perhaps thre will be a time you could use some flexibility in the schedule. If you start out by being inflexible just for the sake of it, you are creating the expectations that deviation is not possible,and this will not benefit you--or the kids. Its fine to be judgmental in your head about wife #2 (though if you are, I think you've got a ways to go in terms of really letting go and not caring) but keep it to yourself. [/quote]
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