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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I don’t know. This was kind of a lose lose situation. You got what you wanted, but to what end?  Now GF is unhappy with her BF, and BF didn’t get to bring his GF so he’s probably annoyed too. It’s just a bad start to their relationship and I feel like it’ll always be seen as your fault. [/quote]

Nah, I think OP's friend got his priority straight. Personally, I think his relationship with that girl won't last because of her jealousy. They've just started dating, and she already wants him to give up his existing friendship. At least he has a spine to say no to her. Good for him.[/quote]

You live on another planet if you think most anyone would be fine with their new boyfriend/girlfriend jetting off on a vacation with an opposite sex friend. Get a clue. It may be jealousy but it’s appropriate and normal. [/quote]

+1. If I were dating a guy who did this, I'd probably end the relationship. [/quote]

Why exactly? He's not sleeping with OP. They are long time friends who have traveled together before. This trip was planned and paid for before the GF was in the picture. You would end a relationship just because you are jealous?

That seems...crazy. [/quote]

I’m not so sure I’d believe they weren’t sleeping together, especially if OP had asked me not to go. Can you not understand that from GF’s perspective? Not crazy in the least. [/quote]

The boyfriend has met new girlfriend 3x in person/real life...  OP is not the one telling new girlfriend not to go.  OP is just going on a trip that was planned and paid for long before new girlfriend was in the picture.  So yeah, I suppose new girlfriend is insecure about her new relationship and the trip her new boyfriend is taking with a long time travel companion.  She needs to get over it.[/quote]

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