Reply to please tell me this won't be so bad

Forum Index » Off-Topic

Reply to "please tell me this won't be so bad"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It kind of seems like what you want to ask isn't 'is moving to the middle of nowhere going to be ok' and rather is 'what do I do about my asshole of a husband'.

My impression is that you feel you're in a situation where you have to comply with everything or he will 'divorce you'.  It's easy to make suggestions when you're not the one in this boat, but I think you should consider beating him to the punch.  I don't think mental health issues = no custody, particularly for a mom, iif we're talking depression and anxiety that is being treated and not like schizophrenia where you tried to drown the baby last month.  Other posters, correct me if I'm wrong.[/quote]

This, entirely this. The problems -- aside from your own depression, which I know how that feels and how it changes your perceptions of what is and isn't possible, and I hope most sincerely you receive successful treatments for *soon* -- here mostly seem to stem from the fact that your husband, as you describe him, doesn't give a damn about you as a whole person and has no respect for your priorities or feelings.[/quote]
OR
OR
OP does not verbalize her needs, finds alternative strategies and plans and just says yes, her husband thinking she is fine with his ideas and then she gets to be the victim.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics