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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We're both 47, been together for 13 years.  No kids.

We had sex 44 times in 2015, 42 times in 2016, 50 times in 2017.  We're slightly off pace this year at 21 times.

I wish it were in the 100-150 times/year range.[/quote]

I'm impressed by your counting skills which must require putting notches on a bed post. Regardless of your accuracy I can uderstand your spouses concern with the data. Of your 50 times last year how many times did she really enjoy it? If you don't know the answer....that's why you are not in the 100-150 times a year.[/quote]

If I cared to do so, I could also tell you the exact number of times I had sex each year. I use an app that tracks my periods and fertility,  and I also record all PIV sex in the app (I do not track other activities if I can't get pregnant from them). I don't count how many times we had sex though. That's not the reason for my tracking.

I'm not 47 yet, but if I'm still fertile at 47 (which I am assuming I will be based on genetics), I'll still track.

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Ok, so share? Why not? You are saying here you keep track  but you don't want to share? Why post this?? It serves ABSOLUTELY no purpose unless you are going to then share your numbers. Share share share. [/quote]

I didn't say I didn't WANT to share; I said if I CARED to count and share.
A quick count was 144 times in 12 months, so 12x/month. I guess fairly average?[/quote]

In marriage, I'd say that's above average. While I'm sure there are people out there that would want more or need more, I think that would be acceptable to most people that complain about how much sex they have[/quote]

I agree as that's almost 3x per week which is what we probably averaged in our first ten years together. We are now in the 1-2 times after 30 years and I'm happy with that though I'm sure DH would prefer more. [/quote]
I am also sure DH has likewise deprioritized the things that you enjoy most in the relationship. I mean, after 30 years together, why should he still care to hear about your day?[/quote]

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