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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I also wanted to add that DH spends 2 hours on a sport hobby about 2-3 times per week, late in the evenings usually.  So like from 8-10 pm 2-3 times per week.  He ends up getting to bed late, is exhausted the next day, and then falls asleep while playing with DC which DC doesn't like.  But DH refuses to give up this sport.  Even though this counts as personal time, DH wants daily personal time in addition, of about 2 hours per day.[/quote]

That is his free time. If he chooses to spend it on a sport, that is up to him. Frankly, if he wants more personal time, he should dispense with the bother of having a wife and child. He can have plenty of personal time as a divorced man who pays a shitlod of alimony and child support due to abandoning his family. [/quote]

Agree.  ANYONE who lives with someone simply won't have two HOURS each DAY by themselves. Adding in a guy who works 70 hours a week? He'd be lucky to get 2 hours per WEEK alone.  My husband is also a law firm partner and once or twice a week he will play basketball or something with guys. All his other time, he's with me and or the kids. I asked him once when his "alone time" is and he looked really surprised. "The shower, when I'm cooking, commuting...."[/quote]

That sounds miserable.

I'm married.  Both my husband and I get a lot of alone time, free time.  But we understand that that's important.  Family life sounds utterly suffocating. [/quote]

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