Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Why is it that the higher up you go in the social ladder, the more enforced gender norms are?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not jealous. I never understand this reaction. We’re not jealous, we think you are subservient to the male patriarchy and holding women back from upwards mobility and independence. Oh, and I’m not fat either. Even if I was, it’s funny you think I’m angry and fat in order to not really admire at all women whom uphold traditional gender stereotypes. I’m not letting it go. You represent second class citizens happy to be subservient to men’s ambitions and dreams. You’re asolutely pathetic as role models to young women. [/quote] Girl, that was an angry post, whether you want to admit it or not. You need to learn to respect other women's choices. [/quote] I don’t respect most women who choose to SAH. Many WAHM don’t. We don’t talk about it openly. We pretend, but it’s there. It’s the divide amongst women. Those of us driving gender equality in the workplace don’t for a minute understand your choice. You, SAH, you think we’d all choose your path in life if only we landed a rich husband. You, who decimated the ambition of your youth to kowtow to a man’s ambition. No, you don’t deserve my respect as someone championing forward better choices for women. You exude privledge living a social lobotomy of your former self. [/quote] You have issues. Therapy. Seek some.[/quote] I’m happy. Do not need therapy to state a truth, I’ve observed. Many women stop personal achievements to raise kids. Their DHs don’t. [b]If it’s equal work, why aren’t the men leaving the workforce. Because it’s not equal. [/b]Fact, you aren’t earning the money honey. Your DH got that factoid and its why he’s busy at a career, forgets your birthday and we all know the score. You as a woman decided to take a second seat. If it were a desirable first class chair in life, men would be doing women’s work.[/quote] It is equal; it's just not the same. Men tend to prefer working to spending all day with children and being so concerned with the small details of their children's lives, although they love their children. Some women—even those with excellent educations and high levels of career success—would rather be with their children than at work. Or it would pain them more than it would their husbands to have their children's quality of life be lower through being raised primarily by strangers. [/quote] You’re nuts. It’s not equal. Men prefer working because they remain independent and have a life beyond husband and father. They like finding a high driven A type woman willing to cede to their ambition. If you graduated an Ivy, are at least a 7 hot, and a killer queen bitch bee socially, total catch. Your new role, give up everything you may have dreamt of to his ambition. Your his arm candy on the nights he’s not balls deep somewhere else...with someone he def doesn’t respect like you.[/quote] Lol. Who else thinks this repeated poster is the bitter AP of some rich dude who won’t marry her?[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics