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Reply to "women's invisible labor - anyone had luck getting spouse to take on more of the mental work?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Original calendar Pp. Couldn't find the post to quote..sorry! DH puts recurring reminders on the calendar, so things like fire alarms , cleaning filters, ordering things, etc are on the calendar months in advance. He then adds stuff as needed but usually waits until we sit down to divide the tasks. I am not that organized so basically when I think of something, I add it. I'll add two other things that make our system.work. 1. We do what we are supposed to do. 2. If we think of something and we can do it when we remember or are reminded, we do it and don't "save it". For instance we got a reminder to our family email that ds' asthma meds needed to be refilled. So DH took care of it when he saw the email. Next week , when we sit down to divide the task, he won't bring that up in order to get out of something else. It all evens out in the end, at least in our house [/quote]
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